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FROM Single Life and Dating:
Cut the cord with woman dating best friend
Dear Life Coach,
I dated this girl for three years, and then she broke up with me to date my best friend. They are still together two years later, so I have to see her frequently - and it hurts so much sometimes. I'm not sure I'll ever get over her, because we shared so many special times and planned to spend our whole lives together. The last time I caught her alone, and told her how I felt, she said she wasn't sure she'd ever loved me.
Several months ago, a friend and co-worker took an interest in me, and knowing her has really made me enjoy life again. She is attractive, smart, kind and thoughtful, and we have a lot of fun together. I didn't realize how strongly I felt about her until she applied for and got a transfer to our main office in another state. During the two weeks before she left, we were together constantly, and she told me she loved me. We have kept in touch daily with phone calls and emails, and I went there to see her for a week. We found we can talk about anything, that we are really compatible and want almost the exact same things in life. I know I love her, even though I haven't told her yet, because I'm scared to death I'll get hurt again - and I know I'm not even over my first girlfriend. She wants me to move there, and I even know about an opening in my field, but I'm so confused, I don't know what to do.